Short: Toi et Moi (aka 'You and I', en français s'il vous plaît) rose to fame thanks to Napoleon's proposal to Josephine in 1796. While that's all very romantic, we like to think of this necklace as a symbol of modern love, as in, the love you have for yourself. Why? Bc all data shows that when you take care of yourself, you are in fact a better human for the world around you. May this serve as a reminder to book that night off, say no to that dinner you are dreading, eat those carbs, take that vacay, read that book, or do whatever it is that *you* need. The rest will thank you. Long: Don't let the name fool you, Toi et Moi is all about *you* and we designed it as such. You're in the driver's seat here and can select (1) over a dozen gemstones in pear and emerald cuts, (2) vermeil, 14K, or 18K gold, and (3) a classic or a vintage style setting. Full array of options here.